This commit changes nghttpx's mruby script handling.  Previously we
have 2 options to specify the mruby script file to be run on request
and on response.  Now they are merged into 1 option, namely
--mruby-file.  It now must return object.  On request, the object's
on_req(env) method is invoked with env object.  Similarly, on
response, the object's on_resp(env) method is invoked.  The
specification of Env object has not changed.

See GH-377

Merge branch 'h2load-rateperiod' of https://github.com/LPardue/nghttp2 into LPardue-h2load-rateperiod

Fixed code as per PR comments

If application returns NGHTTP2_ERR_PAUSE from send_data_callback, it
means application processed all data, but wants to make
nghttp2_session_mem_send or nghttp2_session_send return immediately.
This is useful if application writes to fixed sized buffers, and there
is no room to write more data.

Move write buffer to Upstream objects

This change adds new return error code from nghttp2_session_mem_recv
and nghttp2_session_recv functions, namely NGHTTP2_ERR_FLOODED.  It is
fatal error, and is returned when flooding was detected.

Compile with BoringSSL except for neverbleed and libnghttp2_asio.  The
former uses ENGINE and RSA_METHOD, and they are quite different
between OpenSSL and BoringSSL.  The latter uses boost::asio, which
calls OpenSSL functions deleted in BoringSSL.

To keep ipc channel being read from worker process, default loop
should not be stopped.  To join all worker threads, now we use
dedicated thread to do this.  When all worker threads are joined,
ev_async_send sends message to default loop, and it is finally
stopped.