Summary: `CoreCachedSharedPtr` is almost as fast as `ReadMostlySharedPtr`, so we can use it to have a better default that does not have pathological behavior under heavy contention. `try_get_fast()` is still useful if we need to squeeze out the last cycle.

Reviewed By: philippv, luciang

Differential Revision: D29812053

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