Add --enable-strict-http-parser mode to enable it.

Exceeding ACKed max concurrent streams results in connection error.
This change fixes the bug that num_{incoming,outgoing}_streams
is decremented wrongly if a stream is in reserved state and
RST_STREAM is send and its state is changed to NGHTTP2_STREAM_CLOSING.
This change also fixes the bug that transmission of push response
HEADERS does not increase num_outgoing_streams.

Patch from Dave Beckett

This function behaves like nghttp2_session_send(), but it does not
use nghttp2_send_callback to send data. Instead, it returns the
serialized data to trasmit and its length to the caller.

Also erase generated .rst files on `make clean`.

Patch from Dave Beckett

We need paddings regardless of payload and frame boundary to mitigate
certain attacks.

Since we handles CONTINUATION internally, we don't show FLAG_PAD_HIGH
and PAD_LOW flags of HEADERS in nghttp/nghttpd. We just show the
total paddings in HEADERS + CONTINUATION.